Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Managing ur Anger- Slipping off!

I'll be sharing on something I do that have also worked for me. That's 'slipping off! I use that when I'm with extremely unbearable persons that I can't do anything about. Talk about the nagging boss, parents and your superiors generally.Those people u can't afford to look around when they are talking to u because they have an authority over u. So, they stand u in front of them and pour out those cutting words on u. Those words that make u feel so bad and angry that u want to slice off their throats!, but hey, he's your boss and u need your pay check like oxygen! So what do u do? Simple-SLIP OFF! (In your mind sweetheart).

Its funny and a bit crazy, but it works. I've done that a hundred times ( I stay with my grand mum and u don't want to know how she nags!) Simply fix your gaze on the person and take a trip to your wonder land baby. Think of the best moments u ever had in life ( try not to smile though, U wouldn't like what will happen). Just DON'T LISTEN! U'll definitely HEAR, but don't listen. They are two different things. U'll HEAR because u are not deaf, but u are not listening because u are not paying attention!. Remember, u're not going to look around (that's disrepectful to your boss), but do the mind thing honey. Get your mind off the environment and by the time he's through, u come back (call me naughty, but hey, one has to do what one has to do). Tell him u are sorry for all he said u did and give him a 'Thank u' plus a smile. Believe me, u have succeeded in shielding off some effects from the words. U will still feel it, but not as much as if u had paid full attention. That way, U can put up with the most unbearable persons and live your life happier, better and lovelier. That is what I want and know u want that too: A beautiful life- No stress especially, on my emotions.

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